The most important things that we cannot ever learn by reading books.

 I like motivational stories, reading this such of stories will make you feel that there is a reasons to live in this world, Sometimes, we can feel touched by the stories that simply amazing written in just short passage. As i stumbled upon this website, i found the most (for this time) amazing stories that definitely will change the thought of your behavior and the way you appreciate people. life is meaningful, all you have to do is dont just see it, observe it, i almost cried when i read the second story.

Here is the 5 amazing stories that i want to share with you guys, read it. you will think that it is worth to read it. The title is : 5 important lesson of how to treat people.

1. First Important Lesson - "Know The Cleaning Lady"


During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"


Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.


"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say "hello."


I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.



2. Second Important Lesson - "Pickup In The Rain"


One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.


A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.


She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home.


A special note was attached. It read: "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others."


Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.




3. Third Important Lesson - "Remember Those Who Serve"


In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. "50¢," replied the waitress.


The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.


"Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient. "35¢!" she brusquely replied.


The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have the plain ice cream," he said. The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left.


When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies. You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.



4. Fourth Important Lesson - "The Obstacles In Our Path"


In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.


Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand - "Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition."




5. Fifth Important Lesson - "Giving When It Counts"


Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year-old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her."


As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheeks. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away?".


Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.

kelebihan telekinetik....haha

Salam..

 

kali ni sepertinya mau berbicara pasal kelebihan telekinetik ni....haha, aku mmg cepat membace perangai org, walaupun dengan sepatah 2 kate...tak tau la..kadang2 tu, aku tgk muke org tu pun aku da paham sgt perangai die camne.. so aku ni jenis yang memahami la..hahaha

aku, kalau jmpe orang buat pertama kali..selalunya, aku tak kan cakap banyak..aku diam je

orang kate aku sombong, padahal aku sebenarnya suke nak perhatikan orang tu...kite tgk dulu perangai die camne...ok ke ko..haha..selalunya, assumption aku akan betol punya..haha....

sebab yang paling aku perasan sekali..kalau aku jmpe seseorang tu buat petame kali, dengan kawan aku

kalau aku perasan perangai die slek (org yg aku baru jmpe) kawan aku selalu akan cakap.."eiihh takdela"...haha..lepas tu..ko tggu la lame2 sikit, mesti kawan aku tu cakap "aah la"...haha...time tu malas je nak cakap, "kan aku dah kate".....

same goes to someone in the past, yang da jadi memori da..haha.....aku da agak sangat satu hari nanti mesti die akan sms aku punya!!....ye, walaupun cam berkarat aku tggu, tapi mmg betol! mase tu aku gelak besar gile bukan sebab aku suke, tapi sebab sangkaan aku tepat sekali!!..haha..lepas dapat sms tu, terus aku delete..kah2...alangkah bestnye perasaan itu. kenape abg?? rindu ke??..aiyooo what the hell la. 

lagi satu, kalau org perasan, kebanyakkan member2 aku semua jenis rok2, haha...kate memahami, kenapa tak kawan ngan org yang baik2 je rupe..haha i tell you la, org yang muke baik tu la kengkadang the most faked person had ever live..haha.tak la semua, tp kebanyakkan aku jmpe mesti camtu. so dont judge people by the looks, kenal dulu. baru make a judgement. org rok2 ni bes, diorang tak faked, tak suke cakap je...pastu diorang tak simpan ape yang diorang tak suke....very open minded, kebanyakkan org camni,perangai mereka jauh lebih matang dari rupe mereka, why??, just simple as they are humble actually, and thats the beauty of it. kebanyakkan orang tak perasan mende ni. haha..because they rather to judge than to see the things are, senang cakap, tak melihat gune otak la..so be wise people, be friends to all, even with the enemies :)

so last word goodnite, even sekarang da pukul 7.30 pagi..haha...besela tak tdo..insomnia. nite peeps!

............bob marley

YOU may not be her first,her last, or her only. she loved before she may love again

but if she love you now, what else matters?

she's not perfect- you aren't either

and the two of you may never be perfect together

but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice,

and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her 

and give her most you can. she may not be thinking about you every second of the day

but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break
~her heart.

so don't hurt her, don't change her,

don't analyze and expect more than she can give.

smile when she make you happy

let her know when she can make you mad

and MISS her when she's not there.

berdiam diri lebih baik daripada bercakap

MARAH!

kalau korang marah, ape korang buat??

1. maki semaki makinye
2. sepak je orang yang korang marah tue
3. hentak semua barang berdekatan sampai pecah berderai
4. tendang sesuatu sampai kopak
5. berdengus cam lembu
6. buat muke paling taik sekali untuk menunjukkan kemarahan (kononnye la)
7.ambil wuduk dan sembahyang dengan secepat mungkin pastu doa mintak ilang sikit kemarahan (mmmm~)
8. berdiam diri cam ko sorang je duduk kat bumi ni. buat tak pedulik kat org len
9. tulis segalnye kat twitter, formspring, blog atau fesbuk, puas hati bia semua orang bace,(HOT la sangat!)
10. cerite kat org memahami, cam mak ke, boyfriend ke besfren ke, kucing ataupun teddy bear.

haha, marah ni susah nak kate kan, kengkadang tu, kite marah, tapi tak tau nak cakap kat sape..rase geram cam nak robek2 je ati orang yang kite marah tu. tapi kite jangan ingat kite sorang je boleh marah dalam dunia ni.orang lain tak bersalah mane pun, tapi bile kite marah, kemain lagi....cam kite sorang je betul.. jangan lepaskan kemarahan kt org len.. tak baik buat orang camtu..orang lain pun ade perasaan jgak, aku tulis ni pun atas nasihat kepada diri sendiri jgak. kite cek diri kite, kalau salah kite usaha betulkan!, hidup ni tak lame, sekejap je.tak bes la marah2 ni. kalau kite tak ceria..memori ape yang kite tinggalkan mase kite da takde nanti??..betul tak, takkan bile kite dah takde kite nak org ingat kite dgn mende tak baik kan???....hmm decision in your hand, you can choose your life that you want it to be. so the best way is to forgive and forget.

marah boleh, tapi biarla bertempat, jangan marah pasal nonsense thing, cam marah justin bieber kapel ngan selena gomez ke, pensel 20 sen ilang ke,marah sebab boyfriend atau girlfren rapat ngan orang len lam gamba ke..haha..macam la boyfren atau girlfren awak tu hidup sensorang lam dunia ni..cam terlanggar bahu org ke, tak dapat shopping ke..ala buat pe nak marah sangat. lek la...chillax..cara marah anda juge menunjukkan tahap kematangan ok..so org yang suke ngat marah ni..tak kool....tak kool.

aku kalau marah ape yang aku buat, aku buat yang no 8 tu, haha...tak tau la kenape, mmg paling sesuai!!
no lain tu ade jgak tapi diam ni lebih baik. betul, tak caye cube try.. haha..aku kalau angin2 kat umah mesti mak tak layan..die pun buat tak kisah..eii geram gile..las2 sekali kalau aku diam, mak aku akan concern sangat pulak..siap masak lagi ape aku nak...haha...same la kalau aku gaduh nagn kakak aku...kalau diam mesti die belikan barang best2..haha....sebaiknye yang no 7 tu..kalau ade lelaki yang prektik no 7 tu..
aku yang akan meminang die..haha..tapi adeke laki cam tu zaman sekarang ni..haha....adeke????

marah tu datang nye dari syaitan, syaitan itu diperbuat dari api, jadi redakan api kemarahan dgn air (wuduk)

insyaallah its all gonna be fine, jangan marah ye...sayang die :)

hari mengundi di UM =.=' & honeymoon dream

Aku sebenanye malas gile nak mengundi arini, seyes weh....entah ape2 la..lantak la, malas nak panjang cerite
aku g mengundi gak la, takut kene blaklist kolej ke ape jadah ke.....bek g mengundi...yang mengundi tu sape entah..aku main klik je..pap2..tetibe die kate undian anda telah selesai..haha....terkejut je i, aku baru undi org kedue..patutla die kate ade lebihan 9 calon lagi anda boleh mengundi...ahhhh kisah pulak!!..lantok le....

tgh2 tgk website kat stumble upon ni, tetibe je aku ternampak tempat percutian yang cambestt sangat..haha.kat Norway,lofoten, kat lam kepale da pikir da, uishh..ni kalau g haneymoon ni best ni...hahaha...tgk2 gamba ni tetibe teringat kat tioman....hmmm bile la nak pegi ni agaknye...ahhh satu hari nanti aku akan jejak jgak kat tmpat ni... :)

best kan, cantik gile.....tak macam kl ni serabot je..haha......ok nak semayang zohor ni, pastu nak g klas dr hensem lak...huhu...kelas law,,ok cau cin cau :D

sekarang saya dah tak kisah...really..tak tipu punya!

sekarang ni tgh update blog pakai laptop suzie, haha, terbongkang tgh tdur sensorang, ade pah, emi,, ya ngan suzi..haha besela aku klo update blog kol 3,4 pg..HAHA, takpela aku kan tengah jage diorang ni. keke

sekarang ni kalau ade perkara yang menyebabkan aku sakit hati, aku akan lupekan je. hmm, aku akan ignore je, pape pun aku tak kan amik pot da. lantak. aku da tak kisah, aku tak nak serabutkan kepale ngan paleotak aku ni dgn perangai2 cambest korang tu. apehal pulak kan. aku ni cam takde pulak keje lain selain nak melayan perangai korang yang ntah pape tu. kejam tak kejam, aku dah kasi peluang utk caring ngan korang once dulu, tp seems cam 'korang' tak pedulik. aku pedulik hape pulak?. ade aku kisah plak kan?. aku tak heran la..seyes!

orang kate ignorance is evil, but sometimes you have to do it, to ignore!, its absolutely suitable bile kite jmpe ngan org2 yang menyakitkan hati dan pikiran. sebab, dari kita skit hati ngan perangai yang ntah ape2, yang not important and absolutely ridiculos, ntah ape2 ntah. baik kite buat tak pedulik. buat ape nak kisah. banyak keje lain yang lebih baik kite buat dr layan org camni, siram bunga ke, menyanyi ke, melompat ke.. lebih baik dr layan org yg camni kan??.. haha please sile get lost je la, pedulik pulak aku ngan pangkat keturunan ko~!, aku tak hairan.

prinsip aku senang je, klau kau baik ngan aku, aku akan baik ngan ko, kalo ko tak??.. pedulik pulak aku ngan ko...haha (wise word, ayat billie gak ni.haha)

haha..puas la menulis camni.....hilang sikit rase kebengangan ini....lagi satu puas pasal aku baru je lepas melabur tadi.hahaha pukul 4 pagi lak tu..haha memberanikan diri gak a tak tahan! :D..

75 ways to stay unhappy forever

i must say that we have a lot in common, thats why i feel unhappy lately?..haha..tak tau ler, okeh lets cek it out the 75 ways to stay unhappy guys! :D

1. Dwell on things that happened in the past.
2. Obsess yourself with all the things that might happen in the future.
3. Complain about problems instead of taking the necessary steps to resolve them.
4. Fear change and resist it.
5. Work hard, do your best and then condemn yourself for not achieving perfection.
6. Belittle yourself.
7. Hang out with other people who belittle you.
8. Try to control everything and then worry about the things you can’t control.
9. Lie to yourself and those around you.
10. Keep doing the same thing over and over again.
11. Be lazy and follow the path of least resistance.
12. Hold onto anger.  Never forgive anyone.
13. Always be right.  Never let anyone else be more right than you.
14. Compare yourself unfavorably to those who you feel are more successful.
15. Let small issues snowball into big problems.
16. Never learn anything new.
17. Never take responsibility for your own actions.
18. Blame everyone around you.
19. Don’t ask for directions and don’t ask questions.
20. Don’t let anyone help you.
21. Quit when the going gets tough.
22. Be suspicious.  Trust no one.
23. Get four hours of sleep every night and convince yourself that it’s enough.
24. Never throw anything way.  Even if you don’t use it, hold onto it.
25. Say “yes” to everyone.  Fill all your time with commitments.
26. Try to be everyone’s friend.
27. Multitask, multitask, multitask!  Do everything at once.
28. Never spend any time alone.
29. Don’t help others unless you have to.  Do only the things that benefit you directly.
30. Hang out with people who complain about everything.
31. Focus on what you don’t want to happen.
32. Fear the things you don’t fully understand.
33. Always seek external validation before you consider yourself good enough.
34. Take everything and everyone in life seriously.
35. Spend your life working in a career field you aren’t passionate about.
36. Focus on the problems.
37. Think about all the things you don’t have.
38. Read or watch lots of depressing news from broadcast media.
39. Set lofty goals for yourself and never do anything to achieve them.
40. Never exercise.
41. Only eat junk food and fried food.
42. Never check-up on your health.
43. Setup your lifestyle so it revolves around money.
44. Spend more than you earn and rack up lots of financial debt.
45. Don’t say what you mean.  Don’t mean what you say.
46. Frown.
47. Never tell anyone how you feel or what you’re thinking.
48. Make sure everything you do impresses someone else.
49. Always put your own needs on the back burner.
50. Get involved in other people problems and make them your own.
51. Make others feel bad about themselves.
52. Watch TV for several hours every day.
53. Gamble often.
54. Stay in the same place.  Don’t travel.
55. Don’t play, just work.
56. Let your hobbies go.
57. Let your close relationships go.
58. Never finish what you start.
59. Take everything personally.
60. Do lots of drugs.  Drink lots of alcohol.
61. Never say, “I’m sorry.”  Never say, “I love you.”
62. Don’t work hard at anything.
63. Always wait until the last minute.
64. Believe that, no matter what, you are entitled to things.
65. Let others make decisions for you.
66. Remember the insults.  Forget the compliments.
67. Let it all bottle up inside.
68. Rely on others for everything.
69. Fail to plan.
70. Don’t dream.
71. Don’t think about the future at all.
72. Always disregard other people’s opinions and suggestions.
73. Make promises you can’t keep.
74. Don’t decide on anything, ever.
75. Just keep going and going and going.  And never ever stop.